One of the main functions of a human, at least in a biological sense (because every individual is different), is to procreate. Human beings are designed to have sex, and at our very basic level, this is what we’re looking for on a day-to-day basis.
Of course, over time, we have complicated matters because of our big brains, but it still stands as a fact that humans want to have sex more often than not, and they want to enjoy it.
Some people are a lot more confident in the bedroom than others, and this can cause problems when it comes to enjoying sex in the way we’re built to. It can make us tense, nervous, and even ashamed either of what we look like or what fantasies we might have. With that in mind, here are some helpful tips on how to be a more sexually confident woman.
Have a Sense of Humor
Isn’t sex a very serious subject? The answer is yes and no. It can be as serious or as fun as you want it to be. However, if you’re looking for a way to build up your sexual confidence, making it fun can be what works for you.
Sex is too important a part of life to be something that causes a lot of stress, which is why you should have fun with it where you can. This might mean searching out a sex store near me so you can find some toys and other fun items to spice things up with – perhaps this will even tie into your fantasies, as we’ll discuss a little later on.
Whatever you do, the more fun you have, the more confident you’ll be.
Get Connected to Your Body
You must be connected to your own body before you can feel a true connection to anyone else. Plus, you need to know what you like – and don’t like – so that you can help your partner understand and ensure your time together is pleasurable.
This might seem like a difficult thing to do at first, but it’s worth persevering with because it can make all the difference when it comes to how confident you are when you’re with someone else. One thing that can help if you’re not sure where to start is to let yourself have fantasies. This is easier when you’re alone than when you’re with someone else, so take the opportunity to understand what it is that turns you on.
Ask Your Partner
Once you are more confident in your own body, it’s a good idea to have a conversation with your partner about it too. Ask them what it is they love about your physical body; when they tell you, don’t shrug it off, but instead enjoy the compliment and remember it. Believe it. This is what will boost your confidence even more. The truth is that people are hyper-critical about their own bodies, but your partner may not have even noticed some of the flaws you think you have, and even if they have, they are still attracted to you. Therefore, believing them when they tell you this will be very helpful.